We Focus On Getting Through Tough Times, Without Pausing Once a While

I have come to realize something the last past months. Every time I am having a hard time with something, may it be something physical, emotional, what ever, I tend to focus so hard on getting past that feeling of pain, figuring out a solution, convincing myself that once I finally pass this barrier I am facing today, everything will be fine. Only to realize, a bunch of new problems to arise afterwards. And it tends to break a person down mentally.  This has happen to me so many times, and to others, that I have witnessed.

In our heads we create a future for ourselves. A life that we dream of to have one day. And ninety percent of the time we walk towards that reality. And sadly, there are only a hand full of people on this planet, that eventually reach that reality, and get to live it. As for the rest, focusing so hard on what they want, they forget what they have, right now. And some realize this, yes, but for most it is to late. They have lived a life of absence to the present.. And that time can never be lived again.

We are faced with problems each day, some that we can fix, some that we can even prevent, and some that are completely out of our hands. Problems are not what defines a person, it's how you deal with it. And how you deal with the next one, and the next one.. Once we realize that life is a series of hard times, and problems, never to stop, and we can make peace with that.. you WILL find meaning in those hard times. And even start to cherish some.

Be thankful for what you have. Be thankful for people willing to help in hard times. Once every now and then just stop and think about what is going on in your life, who i in your life, and what they mean to you. There are beautiful-hearted people on this planet. And it's thanks to them, that makes this life so much more special to me. To everyone who reads this and has been a part of my life up until now, no matter who you are or what our relationship.. thank you.

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